Good morning Cyprus! πώς είσαι?
It is common for a lot of women after a breakup to put all men in the same bag and called them stupid, assholes, bastards…
However, it is more difficult for someone to take responsibility!
I mean if you are doing the same mistakes again and again. If each relationship ends badly. It is time to take a step back and analyze yourself!
Today my focus is on breakups, but the following tips are good for every situation. In order to break a circle, it is primordial to understand that circle.
So, ask yourself:
- Why am I in this situation? This simple question can change everything. Indeed in 99% of the cases, you will discover that is just your fault. Perhaps you did not follow your gut. Perhaps you made a bad choice, but the good thing is that it is never too late to change.
- How can I change it? This is where you will put in place new behaviours to break the circle. Never ever give up. As long as you move forward, it does not matter how slowly you go!
Perhaps you were in a previous situation because you did not take enough time to recover from your previous breakup. Perhaps also you are afraid of being single and do not know how to be happy alone!
Taking responsibility is also that ability to ask yourself forgiveness. I mean we are not perfect. It is okay to make mistakes. However, it is unacceptable to always blame someone else, to never assume our faults.
In other words, to overcome successfully a bad situation, don’t run away! Stay firm and calm! I suggest you to never make a decision when you are angry! Emotions are a thin wall that obstructs your vision. Perhaps you focus on a small detail and you cannot see the whole thing!
Have a nice day!
See you soon!