To love or be loved?
Love is a sensible and in the same time a beautiful subject, about which has been written a great deal over time.
When we talk about love, we talk about the beauty of life. Love means peace and happiness, joy and gratitude, understanding and acceptance, butterflies in the stomach and missing to pieces and so many other things that can’t be described in words.
When it comes to love or be loved, there are many who will say that’s better to be loved. Here is when the selfishness comes to life, that moment when people feel safe by being loved without offering love in return. That attitude may also come from disappointments and fear of suffering, but that means not allowing yourself to love and what’s the point of seeing the one next to you doing everything for your well being, struggling for your love, being happy and delighted by having you near him, but you can’t feel anything, you’re empty inside?
There are also the others who say that for them is more important to love. They are those who are ready to offer without getting anything in return. Most of the time this people love so much the one next to them and consider that their love is enough for both of them.
Mostly, these types of love lead to frustrations on both sides, fights and in the end to break-ups.
If you ask me……. the most important is to love and be loved at the same time by the same person. Love is when his happiness is my happiness and vice versa.